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PAIL Blogroll

Welcome to the PAIL blogroll. This list was created to connect those who find themselves parenting or pregnant after experiencing infertility and/or loss to share experiences, advice, words and friendship.

There are no rules–if you’d like to join, then you are most welcome. For more details on what this space is about, visit this post.

If you would like your blog added:

1. Visit this link and add the code to put the PAIL blogroll button on your blog sidebar–instructions are included for both WordPress and Blogger users

2. Click here and fill out the form

3. Once I receive your form, I will check to see the button has been added and I will then add you to the list below

4. Don’t forget to check out what’s happening over at the monthly theme post and join in!

*If at any time you’d like to make a change to your listing, please send me an email at yolkblogger@gmail.com

Babies under 1 year

Babies between 1-2 years
  • The Second Act–I’m a mother to two children after having several losses while TTC #,
  • Lessons from an Infertile Social Worker–I’m a momma to 2 boys through open adoption, born September 2012
  • Stumbling Gracefully–On learning to let go, live life and laugh out loud (in Motherland). The chronicles of an urban mama negotiating cloth diapering, bilingualism, and the all the rest of it in a big city, born June 2010
  • Snips, Snails and Puppy Dog Tales–My unexpected journey parenting a special needs son after infertility, born September 2010
  • Boys on Tuesdays–Daily life with 2 boys, born June 2010
  • The Jarrells–our journey through ivf and now parenting to our miracle, born October 2010
  • Ana Begins–Muddling through as a mother of two,born October 2011
  • Hobbit-ish Thoughts & Ramblings–Parenting and living life after infertility and recurrent pregnancy loss, born November, 2010
  • Donor Eggs Journey–In the nowhere land of parenting a cutie pants 18 month old and trying for a second with the added complication of going to Thailand each time for a cycle
  • IF Crossroads–Infertile + Toddler + Working Mom = insanity, born August 2010
  • Legos and Jets–Air Force wife, Mama to 11 month old, born March 2011
  • This Beautiful Life–Parenting after Infertility, born December 2010
  • Abiding Andrew–All about Andrew, my little miracle “snowman.” born January 2011
  • Surviving Mommyhood 101–Surviving the every day maddness of Mommyhood! born August 2010
  • Adventures in Babywaiting (for #2) Starting the infertility process over again, from scratch, born January 2012
  • ErnieGirl–An infertile birthmother breastfeeding her 15 month old, and TTC#2, born November 2010
  • My Mommy Musings–My journey raising a toddler and infant after infertility, born May 2010
  • Loving Our Life Together–Life with 2 kids after IF: adopted son in 2010; daughter born in 2011

Kids older than 2 years

  • Creating a Rainbow–1 – 3 year old, 1- 10 week miscarriage, 1- pregnancy after 6 failed cycles and almost 10 months post miscarriage. I am currently 10 weeks pregnant
  • Mesdames plus baby–Two moms, two boys, and eventually plans for two more pregnancies (split between us). Oh, and two cats, born July 2009
  • Lessons from an Infertile Social Worker–I’m a momma to 2 boys through open adoption, born February 2006
  • Cure For Boredom–Raising twins and a little girl after multiple losses, born January 2009
  • The Infertility Overachievers–A SAHM’s crazy life raising 2 IVF miracles, born February 2009
  • Keeping up with the koskis–parenting after infertility/ secondary RPL (5 miscarriages) and 38 weeks pregnant with baby #2, born May 2008
  • Our Growing Gardunn–2 1/2 yr old daughter after IUI, Secondary RPL at 11, 12, and 13 weeks. About to TTC again, born July 2009
  • Boys on Tuesdays–Daily life with 2 boys, born July 2008
  • Too Many Fish To Fry–Twin parenting after infertility. Writes “Faces of Adoption/Infertility/Loss”, born November 2007
  • The Life He Gives Us–About parenting my son and twin girls after infertility and the loss of my triplets (2010), born August 2004
  • Emskyrooney–Everyday life, unexplained secondary infertility, pregnancy
  • slowmamma–Parenting after a miscarriage and a stillborn AND pregnant, born May 2009
  • Sunny in Seattle–Four small boys versus my fragile sanity. Enjoy the show! born March 2008, April 2010 and May 2012
  • Ana Begins–Muddling through as a mother of two, born December 2009
  • Sugar Donor–Parenting 4.5 yo girl + twin boys after (9 pregnancies, 7 losses), born June 2007
  • Ivy’s PPD Blog–Trying to bring awareness about perinatal mood disorders by sharing her infertility, pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum depression experiences, as well as her thoughts on media, research and legislative developments as they concern maternal mental health, born December 2004
  • Family Building with a Twist–Parenting a toddler after gestational surrogacy plus a wealth of useless information, born July 2009
  • Trying Again: A Journey of Love–Daughter born after 8 years TTC, followed by 4 losses – including a 2nd trimester loss, born December 2008
  • As Is–Raising twins after 2+ years of infertility and loss, born January 2010
  • The Delicate Balance–Navigating the joys of parenting while dealing with the struggle of miscarriage, born December 2007
  • Birch and Maple–Infertility, with a side of bitter. Now with parenting. Final FET failed, born March 2008
  • A Half Baked Life–Mindfulness through food, yoga, and parenting after repeated pregnancy loss, born September 2006
  • Life, Loss, and Other Things Worth Mentioning–I have 2 living children and 7 angels. Currently trying for #3, born February 2008 & July 2010
  • Serenity Now!–Parenting after getting Lucky. Trying to get lucky again – and failing, born March 2008
  • Better Full than Empty–Blogging about my three kids all conceived through IVF, born 2005 and 2008
  • Life As I Know It–Proud mom of three beautiful boys — 4 year old twins and a nearly one year old, born 2007 and 2011
  • Cherish This Day–Mom of 2 overcoming PCOS and trying for more, born Just 2002
  • Better Full than Empty–Parenting twins and a 3 year old and ttc after pregnancy loss, ttc in April 2012, born 2006 and 2008
  • From TTC to Mommy, thanks to IVF–I started my blog while doing ivf for baby #2. I have 2 kids from ivf, born July 2009
  • Three Quarters Full–Parenting after IF & deciding to stop cycling, born January 2010
  • Slaying, Blogging, Whatever…–Musings from a Sci-Fi Geek about life after Secondary Infertility, born April 2008 and 13-year-old son
  • The Hoyt Family–Enjoying parenting through Faith after dealing with infertility, high risk pregnancies and loss, born May 2004 and September 2009
  • Toddlers and Test Tubes–Balancing the needs of a toddler with the challenges of secondary infertility, born June 2009
  • ANDMom–Life with twins, a singleton, and health issues, born September 2011
  • JustamereIVF–35 year old mother of one dealing with parenting a precocious 3 year old, born April 2009
  • Donor Diva: Mother via Egg Donation–Parenting after conceiving with the help of an egg donor, born February 2010
  • Pull up your potty seat, this could take awhile.–Blog about parenting 3 kids after pcos and ectopic pregnancy, born June 2008

Currently Pregnant (arranged by due date month)

Due in March

Due in April
  • ~Love grows Love~ Love really can grow love (well, through IUI!), all in good time
  • Lissie’s Luck–The craziness of being 8.5 months pregnant with major job uncertainty and a possible move within the next 8 week
Due in May
Due in June
  • Survive and Thrive –After battling through five years of infertility which included two unsuccessful IUI’s, we finally got our miracle pregnancy
  • not undecided–Baby-boy-bound after four early miscarriages
  • Trying not to scream–Pregnant with twins after 3 years TTC and a loss
  • A Cup of Tea–Our IVF journey and it’s successful ending
  • getting closer to fine–Infertility, IVF, pregnancy…what’s next?
  • Sybil and Alex–Pregnancy after 3yrs of trying, 2 IVF’s, and 1 miracle FET
  • Finding My New Normal–Blogging about life, grief, and pregnancy after infertility and a stillbirth at 36 weeks (August 2010)
  • Cloudy with a Chance of Infertility–Once infertile now living a surprise pregnancy
  • Waiting, Wishing, Hoping–Currently pregnant, after infertility & loss; struggling with all the emotions that go with this thing
  • Tortoise Baby–After 3 years of TTC and 1 IVF with FET, we are expecting a baby boy
  • Ovulation Fail–My blog was all about infertility and since I am finally now pregnant after 8 years is about pregnancy AND infertility
Due in July
Due in August
Due in September
Due in October
Due in November

Due in December

Due in January

  • Life on Carolina–This is a candid tale of our lives: work, school, pets, home renovations, new recipes, our journey to become parents and everything in-between.
39 Comments leave one →
  1. February 28, 2012 10:25 pm

    How can we put the PAIL link on our blogs to help others link up?

  2. February 29, 2012 9:01 pm

    Looks like I have some reading to do. Thanks for putting this together.

  3. March 5, 2012 3:00 pm

    My wordpress blog just displays a ? mark when I copy the text into my widget text box. Anyone else have this issue and know how to solve it?

  4. March 5, 2012 7:06 pm

    OMG- love your blog! Thanks for putting this together! My hubs and I have been trying for kids for years now and are just starting the adoption process :)

  5. Alexis permalink
    March 6, 2012 9:44 am

    Holy shit, so many blogs.

  6. March 6, 2012 7:19 pm

    I guess adoptive mothers don’t count? I filled out the form, linked my blog to this one with the link for the badge yet I’m not listed. Why?

  7. March 6, 2012 10:23 pm

    I have the link on my sidebar but the image doesn’t show up. Can you email me on how to get the image? Hope the link is good enough otherwise to be put on the list!

  8. March 7, 2012 12:44 pm

    Just an edit for Remember All the Way- our baby girl was born October 2011, not 2012 :)

  9. March 8, 2012 1:45 am

    I’m still only getting a question mark showing instead of the PAIL logo – this is on wordpress. Any suggestions to get it working?

  10. March 10, 2012 9:37 am

    Read some controversial IF posts and had to stop by to see what PAIL is all about. and I must say…CONGRATULATIONS! I think that this is a WONDERFUL site full of fantastic resources. I’m not yet on the other side of infertility but when I am, I’ll be back. In reading posts, I get the impression that some think that PAIL is seperating the IF community. To those of us who feel that way, I’m going to offer the advice I swore that I never repeat…

    Relax.

    • March 10, 2012 9:53 am

      Hehe, glad some people have been able to maintain their sense of humour. And thank you for your kind words :)

  11. March 12, 2012 10:51 am

    I just wanted to say that I support what you’re trying to do. I came across your blog because of all the controversy on Stirrup Queens. I find it appalling and wish you luck in building your community.

  12. April 20, 2012 7:50 pm

    Hello! I had requested to be a part of the blogroll last week, and did put the PAIL button on my dashboard. Just wanted to make sure you’d gotten my request- I am due with our first in November. : )

    • April 20, 2012 7:51 pm

      Ah- I do see my link now under “due on October.” If you wouldn’t mind changing it to due in November- we’re due November 29th. : ) Thank you so much! Honored to be part of this community.

      • April 20, 2012 7:54 pm

        Ack, sorry! I had copied and pasted the “due in October” tag and forgot to change it to November. It’s fixed now. So glad to have you aboard!

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